Select First Row

        // Store a bool to stop the control from selecting the first row in the GridView
        private bool stopRowSelect = false; 

        private void GridViewProcessingSurveys_CurrentRowChanging(object sender, CurrentRowChangingEventArgs e)
        {
            // The only time I want to stop the selected row from changing is when the Control tries to do it.
            if (stopRowSelect)
            {
                e.Cancel = true;
                stopRowSelect = false;
            }
        }

        private async Task UpdateProcessedGridView()
        {
            // Capture currently selected Rows
            List<int> selectedRows = gridViewProcessingSurveys.SelectedRows.Select(x => x.Index).ToList();
            // Set stopRowSelect to true to stop first row being selected
            stopRowSelect = true; 

            _well.WellProcessedSurveys = await _wellsCRUD.ReadWellProcesssedSurveysAsync(_well.WellId);

            bool firstTime = gridViewProcessingSurveys.Columns.Count > 0 ? false : true;

            _wellMWDSurveyProcessedModels = new BindingList<WellMWDSurveyProcessedModel>(_well.WellProcessedSurveys);

            // Set DataSource
            gridViewProcessingSurveys.DataSource = _wellMWDSurveyProcessedModels;

            gridViewProcessingSurveys.ClearSelection();

            if (!firstTime)
            {
                // Select rows that were previously selected
                foreach (int row in selectedRows)
                    gridViewProcessingSurveys.Rows[row].IsSelected = true;
            }

        }

    Private Sub RadGridView1_SelectionChanged(sender As Object, e As EventArgs)
        Dim SelectedRows As New List(Of GridViewRowInfo)
        For Each rowToSelect As GridViewRowInfo In Me.RadGridView1.SelectedRows
            SelectedRows.Add(rowToSelect)
        Next
        Me.RadGridView1.CurrentRow = Nothing

        For Each row As GridViewRowInfo In SelectedRows
            RemoveHandler Me.RadGridView1.SelectionChanged, AddressOf RadGridView1_SelectionChanged
            row.IsSelected = True
            AddHandler Me.RadGridView1.SelectionChanged, AddressOf RadGridView1_SelectionChanged
        Next 
    End Sub